About Dates in the States

Meet Crystal and Shane, the adventurous couple behind Dates in the States, a blog dedicated to exploring unique date ideas and uncovering hidden gems across the U.S. and beyond.

Based in Rochester, NY, they’ve traveled to every mainland state on a budget and are now taking their adventures global—exploring a new country each year in alphabetical order! Their blog captures these journeys in a fun and personable way, inspiring others to embrace adventure, whether close to home or across the world.

 

💻 Crystal is the creative force behind Dates in the States. When she’s not planning their next big trip, she’s running her own digital marketing company, helping small businesses strengthen their online presence and connect with their communities.

💪 Shane is a dedicated personal trainer running his business out of their home in Rochester. Beekstar Fitness offers virtual and on-location coaching. He specializes in helping clients with limited mobility regain strength, so they can get back to doing what they love.

Their passion for travel and entrepreneurship allows them to live life on their own terms—proving that with a little creativity, you don’t have to choose between work and adventure.

Dates in the States started with a 5-week cross-country road trip in Crystal’s Mustang during their first year of dating. That unforgettable journey sparked the idea to share their experiences, helping other couples, friends, and solo travelers find unique and exciting ways to explore the world—one date at a time.

From local events and restaurant reviews to quirky roadside attractions, scenic hikes, and travel tips, Crystal and Shane cover it all.

Looking for your next date idea? Planning a road trip? Use the state toggle at the top of the page to browse by location.

mystery date ideas

 

 

Want to take the guesswork out of planning a fun date? Explore the city-themed Mystery Date Books!

 

Each book is your guide to a fun, budget-friendly date in your city, helping you discover hidden gems and explore like a tourist in your own backyard. Whether you’re looking for something new or just want to shake up your routine, our Mystery Date Books are here to turn an ordinary day into an unforgettable adventure.

Choose from our collection of Mystery Date Books based in neighborhoods across New York and Florida. Each book features 3-5 stops that will tell you exactly where to go, what to do, where to eat so it’s a surprise every step of the way.

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